feat(codepipeline): add usePipelineRoleForActions field support in L2 (#33961)

### Issue # 27605
#27605

### Reason for this change

Lots of customer reported they don't want such many new roles generated in cdk level.
Current cdk library will help customer to generate a action role if no role configured.
But in Codepipeline backend logic, the pipeline service role will be used as default action role, which the cdk library doesn't align.
This pr will support customer to have more alternatives and won't break anything

### Description of changes
add `usePipelineRoleForActions` field support in L2 construct, and modify the function `AddAction` and `ProduceAction` to make sure this flag covers everything needed

### Describe any new or updated permissions being added

No


### Description of how you validated changes

Unit test/Integ test/local deployment

### Checklist
- [Y] My code adheres to the [CONTRIBUTING GUIDE](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/CONTRIBUTING.md) and [DESIGN GUIDELINES](https://github.com/aws/aws-cdk/blob/main/docs/DESIGN_GUIDELINES.md)

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Author: hwum