Match AzureASOManaged references on group and kind, not version

[nojnhuh]

What type of PR is this?
/kind cleanup

What this PR does / why we need it:

Places that check for references to AzureASOManaged resources were checking API group, version, and kind. As we prepare to additionally serve a v1beta1 version of those resources, those checks need to be adapted to accept either v1alpha1 or v1beta1 as expected versions. These changes skip checking the version entirely, since group and kind are sufficient to determine what the underlying type of an object is.

Which issue(s) this PR fixes (optional, in fixes #<issue number>(, fixes #<issue_number>, ...) format, will close the issue(s) when PR gets merged):
Fixes #

Special notes for your reviewer:

TODOs:

• squashed commits
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• cherry-pick candidate

Release note:

NONE

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 63.63636% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 53.19%. Comparing base (d9da21b) to head (f8cc719).
Report is 11 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
controllers/agentpooladopt_controller.go	50.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
controllers/azureasomanagedcluster_controller.go	80.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
...trollers/azureasomanagedcontrolplane_controller.go	50.00%	1 Missing ⚠️
controllers/managedclusteradopt_controller.go	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Hits        15730    15738       +8     
- Misses      12984    13027      +43     
- Partials      815      820       +5     

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[alimaazamat]

/lgtm

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Git tree hash: 17183d22947a54a76efc12a1b05f866078ed0b7f

[willie-yao]

/lgtm
/approve

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[nojnhuh]

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Consecutive distinct flake counter: 3

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[nojnhuh]

Consecutive distinct flake counter: 3

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4

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