Deprecate XOMHandle

[jmakeig]

[ehennum]

@anu3990 , I believe this fix:

https://github.com/marklogic/java-client-api/issues/997

neglected to add the deprecated tag to

https://github.com/marklogic/java-client-api/blob/4.1.1-develop/marklogic-client-api/src/main/java/com/marklogic/client/extra/xom/XOMHandle.java

in the 4.1.1-develop branch.

[anu3990]

Added change - #1005

[georgeajit]

Refer #997