Design for Data and Control Plane Separation

[mpstefan]

Check Saylor's commit for the PoC with comments included: https://github.com/sjberman/nginx-gateway-fabric/tree/poc/agent-connection

Review and update our current design

• Consider how multiple data planes will work in our architecture and codebase

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