Trait errors should suggest `*` if appropriate for the boudn to succeed

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Trait errors should suggest dereferencing just like type errors do in the second error below:

error[E0277]: the trait bound `&rustc_span::def_id::DefId: rustc_middle::ty::query::sealed::IntoQueryParam<rustc_span::def_id::DefId>` is not satisfied
   --> compiler/rustc_trait_selection/src/traits/error_reporting/on_unimplemented.rs:151:39
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151 |             if self.tcx.trait_of_item(item) == Some(trait_ref.def_id) {
    |                         ------------- ^^^^ the trait `rustc_middle::ty::query::sealed::IntoQueryParam<rustc_span::def_id::DefId>` is not implemented for `&rustc_span::def_id::DefId`
    |                         |
    |                         required by a bound introduced by this call

error[E0308]: mismatched types
   --> compiler/rustc_trait_selection/src/traits/error_reporting/on_unimplemented.rs:152:49
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152 |                 let method = self.tcx.item_name(item);
    |                                                 ^^^^ expected struct `rustc_span::def_id::DefId`, found `&rustc_span::def_id::DefId`
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help: consider dereferencing the borrow
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152 |                 let method = self.tcx.item_name(*item);
    |                                                 +